6.16.2008

Tender Story

Tim and I went for an evening walk tonight and saw Paul and Jenny, friends from our last ward. Tim had seen an "It's a Boy" sign on their front window tonight and told me--I didn't remember Jenny being pregnant...but we don't see them often so....to make a long story short, their fourth child, a little boy named Matthew, was just adopted from China. It is HIGHLY unusual to be able to adopt a boy, but they have him and according the the Chinese and American governments...he's officially theirs! We're so excited for them! Hearing them tell their story of being back in the hotel room and trying to put Matthew to sleep and he refused to be held and would crawl away and fall asleep in a corner reminded me of when Amy and Angela e-mailed from Romania (they volunteered in orphanages) and told how the children didn't like to be touched. Paul and Jenny worked with him because they know babies need to be held and he finally will let them hold him and will fall asleep in their arms. Hug those you love...we all need hugs!

3 comments:

Ang said...

How AWESOME!!!! Please tell them congrats from me!!!

tysonathomson said...

I see what happens to people who were not loved as babies here at work all the time...it is hard to see...love is a learned behavior...I will hug the babies when I get home...and Stacey also.

megadog said...

Thanks for your nice story. Matthew is doing well and we're loving having him and hugging him too. It was fun to see you and Tim-it was meant to be!
Love, Jen Welsh